You’ve Got Questions? I’ve Got Answers.


Is Gem Matchmaking a dating app?

No, it’s not. There is no “swiping left and right” here. I offer personalized matchmaking solutions and a range of options to connect with like-minded singles. Unlike dating apps that rely on algorithms and endless swiping, I provide a hands-on approach. I get to know you deeply and carefully select matches based on compatibility, values, and goals — creating meaningful connections, not just casual encounters.

Is your service expensive?

Pricing information is revealed during the consultation, but don’t worry - you have the option to pay for my services or join my database without a monthly fee!

What is the cost to join?

No matter if you choose a paying membership or not, all members who want the matchmaking service must pay a one-time start-up fee of $199.00. This fee covers the cost of processing a criminal background check and a two-hour Discovery Meeting where we meet in person so I can get to know you and who your ideal match is.

What are the minimum requirements for becoming a member?

Every member must be at least 25 years old, single, and consent to a background screening for criminal and non-criminal activity. They must also live within a 100-mile radius of Annapolis, MD.

I’m in a relationship but want to see “what’s out there.” What is my next step with your service?

Unfortunately, this means Gem Matchmaking is not the right fit for you. I only work with singles who are ready to commit and explore connections and are not in a relationship or marriage.

How do you find matches for me?

I combine personal consultations, your preferences, and a network of vetted singles. Each match is thoughtfully chosen to align with your relationship vision, lifestyle, and personality.

Is my privacy protected?

Absolutely. Confidentiality is a cornerstone of my service. Your personal information and matchmaking process are handled with the utmost discretion and security.

How long does the matchmaking process usually take?

Every journey is unique. Some clients start seeing promising matches within the first month, but meaningful relationships can take time to develop. I focus on quality over speed to ensure lasting connections.

How do I get started?

Please submit a request for a profile, and I will contact you from there. We’ll discuss your goals, address any questions you may have, and determine if my service is the right fit. From there, I will recommend the best option to meet your needs.

What if I have questions before I feel comfortable submitting a profile?

Not a problem. I am here to make this feel like a safe place. Please submit a form to request a call. You may also send a text message or email.